There are no stupid questions but only foolish answers. So the burden is upon me.” When you do not know, ask. When you are uncertain, ask. When you want clarification, ask. Asking questions is not a sign of weakness, it is a demonstration of curiosity, interest, engagement and interest.

Just follow your heart

"Just follow your heart…” This is not a good thing. Hard to reconcile with Scriptures that says that the heart is desperately and hopelessly wicked. The heart is not the only part of the person. There is the will, thoughts, feelings, desires and intentions. All these should be integrated and God-directed in order to make right decisions in order to function correctly.

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If you truly want to be happy, you need to stop comparing yourself to others. Just keep an appreciative eye on the excellent, the achievers and the winners and consider them as your benchmarks for success, not objects of envy

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Have you planned to win? Have you prepared to win? Do you have the will to win? If you do then expect to win.
Winning is never instant. Life is not a lotto game. Winning always entails process. So stop dreaming, wake up and start working.
- F. KONG








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Is it Motivation or is it Education?
Business philosopher Jim Rohn says: "If someone is going down the wrong road, he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. What he needs is education to turn him around.” This is so true. 
Motivate a loser and you end up with a "motivated loser."
Educate the person and you are no longer a “motivational speaker,” you become an educator, a teacher or a mentor.
And this is how the person is truly helped.
- F. KONG

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Somebody says: "One who makes no mistakes makes nothing.” Mistakes are openings for lesson learning that form the basis for strength and potential. Just make sure you do not constantly make the same mistakes. This means you have not learned. But new mistakes mean you have the courage to do new things. But you just need to be humble and willing to be corrected. This is how you achieve progress and success in life.
- F. KONG
                                                                  








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Learn to close some doors to people and circumstances not because of pride or arrogance but simply because they take up too much space, time and energy and will lead you nowhere. Stick to people or circumstances that add value to your success goals and….this should not be one-way. Make sure you encourage and help others to be successful too.
- F. KONG




Motivational Monday
"Negative thoughts are like birds. You can't keep them from flying around your head, but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair." (anon)
The best way to deal with this is to infuse the mind with good, useful mind food and to be in the company of encouraging, positive and hopeful people. And of course, the best thing to do is to be an encourager to others as well.
- F. KONG

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The hardest and the harshest lessons we learn in life are to be treasured and appreciated. It is through these that we had to face our own weaknesses, learn and experience correction that form, develop and release our hidden strengths and untapped potential.

Just one condition: before we can enjoy the benefit, you and I have to go through it and not run away from it.




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It is easy to be competitive. Many of us are.
But it is more noble to learn how to celebrate the success of others.
A heart full of love had no room for envy. So be a loving person.

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People are looking for their dream jobs. I’ve got good news and sad news.
The sad news is that dream jobs do not exist.
The good news is that it will exist but you have to create it yourself.

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When you encounter a difficulty, it is better to stay quiet, study the situation, ask for advice and deal with the situation. This way you learn and become wiser. Do not keep on complaining. 
Somebody says: "Constant complaining are tools people use to announce to all that they are not in control." It’s not a gift. It’s a weakness.

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An advice for the young: In love this principle applies: 
Do not chase people. This makes you lose value and dignity. Just work on being better. 
You will always attract what you are and when the right person comes to you the person stays and does not leave. Those who were chased usually do not stay for good.

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It is always better to stay with people who bring out the best in you and not the people who bring out the stress in you.
People who bring out your best are not necessarily STRESSING you, they are simply STRETCHING you.
And this grateful participant was referring to his immediate boss.








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Many people move from one company to another always seeking for the perfect place to work. No such thing!

The grass always looks greener on the other side. It appears that way because they are far from the grass and when they get near they realise it’s not grass at all but weeds.

Maybe this thought is better: The grass is always greener where you water it.

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When people malign you and badmouth you, all you need to do is to live your life in such a way that no one would believe them for what they say against you. If you allow people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions. That is a losing proposition. Mind your own business and be excellent with what you do.

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Even Turgenev  said: “If we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin.
 you get ready as you go along and learn the process. But you have to be disciplined to stay the course and never quit.

QUOTE FOR THE DAY

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I love this quote: "A flower does not need to be concerned with how to compete with other flowers. It just blooms!!!"

So pay no mind to what others are doing and saying but where you are, you just bloom!

Be excellent. It’s your best reward.

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These are simple ways you can employ to improve on your speech and presentations:
1. Maintain visual contact with your audience. (A smile diffuses tension).
2. Do not hide behind the podium. 
3. DO NOT READ FROM THE POWERPOINT!
4. Be prepared for sudden interruptions.
5. Stick to your allotted time.
6. Apply the power of humor. (Green jokes cheapen)
7. Use pertinent illustrations, quotes and quotations.
8. Master the use of the microphone.
9. Learn volume control. 
Just plain be nice and remember, it's not about you it's all about your audience.

You see someone who is successful and you may feel bad because you are far from this person’s level. Do not fret. Work hard. Learn and improve constantly.
Do not do short cuts. You will lose out eventually. Do not lie and make false claims, if you do so you will be found out.
Your success level will come in due time. Respect the process.
Somebody says this beautifully and I fully agree: "Do not compare your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 20."
Learn and go through the process.

FK